Maybe it was a little adventurous of me to try and cover three extremely broad subjects, but everyone loves a challenge! Destiny and Love are two subjects that the world is obsessed over. No debate there, people are obsessed with the concept of love, aswell as being in it, hence the large abundance of romance books/film and the endless success of them. Destiny is a word that on its own once mentioned in a conversation creates a large chain reaction in people who don't 'believe' it or have alternate views, and the conversation turns into a debate and lasts far into the night.So merely because its the first word I placed in the title, Destinies up first! What is it? Is it real? To what extent do we control it? Three questions constantly asked about it. As far as I know destiny is pretty much fate; the events, direction and success of one's life, normally pre-planned or supposedly 'set in stone'. But does it exist and can we change it? first off by typical and conventional definition the ability to 'change' your destiny...stops its being destiny anyway. Thus the questions is really, can we control our own lives? Of course I am no encyclopedia of tangible and definite answers but I believe that destiny kind of works in some ways, primarily for friends and partners. Yes, you can change parts of your life, and you can change how you're treated by people but I think when it comes it down to it there is an element of 'destiny' to our lives, in the sense that we are meant to meet certain people. Even it appears that people have put a bad mark on our lives, these experiences and people allow us to realise when we have something better. Friends come and go, especially in our younger years, but no matter who you are, they'll always be a few, if not more that will stay, no matter when you meet them. The more bad friends we have, the more appreciative we are of the good ones. The good friends, the ones that stay for a long time will not only help to re-define or help you understand yourself, they'll become another part of your life and sometimes it just seems that some people were meant to meet you. Similarly this goes into love, we're all meant to meet different people that we have feelings for or sometimes think are "the one" but is there such a thing as 'True Love'? and again this is argued a hell of a lot, but of course its real. Whether you're large, obnoxious, racist, fascist, sexist and everything bad in the world or you're a stunning/handsome slim lady/man they'll be someone for you. But what some people doubt is how many there are, there's nothing to say we cant have more than one person for us in our entire life, but we just wont meet them unless we're single. You may meet someone that you fall in love with instantly and they become your soul mate and your true love for the rest of our lives. You may genuinely fall in love with someone and for whatever reason that love fades, it doesn't mean it wasn't 'true love' unless of course you were a prat, or they were a prat and treatment of each other wasn't right, then you find another person that similar becomes your new true love. Believe it. Don't doubt it. Where's the reasoning behind doubting it?
Lastly and briefly; 'Inexplicable Moments' - still pretty much relates to the destiny and love sometimes but there are moments or events that are somehow impossible to explain. You meet a group of people, they become your life and they become part of you, and then after a little while that changes and you meet completely different people. There are times when everything seems low, and something happens to lift the mood. There are people who walk into your life, and positively or negatively change it by TONNES, and no matter what they are memorable. These times, however impossible to explain are ones not to be challenged, questioned or forgotten, they are ones to be cherished.
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